{"id":13487,"date":"2025-05-09T18:44:42","date_gmt":"2025-05-09T16:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/littlebig.sk\/?p=13487"},"modified":"2025-06-19T11:27:34","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T09:27:34","slug":"respekt-a-hranice-pri-vychove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/littlebig.sk\/en\/respekt-a-hranice-pri-vychove\/","title":{"rendered":"Re\u0161pekt a hranice pri v\u00fdchove \u2013 pre\u010do deti potrebuj\u00fa oboje ?"},"content":{"rendered":"

V posledn\u00fdch rokoch sa medzi rodi\u010dmi \u010doraz \u010dastej\u0161ie hovor\u00ed o re\u0161pektuj\u00facom pr\u00edstupe k de\u0165om. Je to dobr\u00e1 spr\u00e1va \u2013 deti si skuto\u010dne zasl\u00fa\u017eia by\u0165 vn\u00edman\u00e9 ako plnohodnotn\u00e9 osoby, ktor\u00fdch potreby a em\u00f3cie s\u00fa d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ide o aktu\u00e1lnu t\u00e9mu aj u n\u00e1s v \u0161k\u00f4lke littleBIG. No v praxi sa \u010dasto stret\u00e1vame s t\u00fdm, \u017ee si rodi\u010dia re\u0161pekt zamie\u0148aj\u00fa s \u00faplnou vo\u013enos\u0165ou.<\/strong> S predstavou, \u017ee ak m\u00e1 die\u0165a rozhodova\u0165, tak m\u00e1 ma\u0165 v\u017edy posledn\u00e9 slovo. \u017de ak chceme by\u0165 re\u0161pektuj\u00faci, nesmieme die\u0165a\u0165u ni\u010d zak\u00e1za\u0165, nastavi\u0165 hranice, ani zv\u00fd\u0161i\u0165 hlas. Len\u017ee tak\u00fdto pr\u00edstup die\u0165a\u0165u sk\u00f4r \u0161kod\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak die\u0165a s ve\u013ekou em\u00f3ciou zareaguje na zadan\u00fa hranicu a my ust\u00fapime, tak u\u010d\u00edme die\u0165a, \u017ee ve\u013ekou em\u00f3ciou hranicu dok\u00e1\u017ee posun\u00fa\u0165. T\u00fdm p\u00e1dom m\u00e1 die\u0165a do bud\u00facnosti tendenciu emocion\u00e1lnu reakciu zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ova\u0165 a pre n\u00e1s je o to \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie \u010fal\u0161iu hranicu ust\u00e1\u0165. Tak\u00fdmto pr\u00edstupom neumo\u017e\u0148ujeme zdrav\u00fd v\u00fdvin mozgu die\u0165a\u0165a, lebo mu nedovo\u013eujeme nau\u010di\u0165 sa spr\u00e1vnu sebaregul\u00e1ciu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zdroj ilustra\u010dn\u00e9ho obr\u00e1zku : Freepik<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Die\u0165a sa neu\u010d\u00ed regulova\u0165 em\u00f3cie, naopak ho u\u010d\u00edme sk\u013azava\u0165 do silnej\u0161\u00edch emocion\u00e1lnych reakci\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 iba pos\u00favaj\u00fa na\u0161e hranice. D\u00f4le\u017eitou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou tohto procesu je, \u017ee dospel\u00fd mus\u00ed by\u0165 schopn\u00fd spracov\u00e1va\u0165 svoje vlastn\u00e9 em\u00f3cie, aby dok\u00e1zal ust\u00e1\u0165 siln\u00fa emocion\u00e1lnu reakciu die\u0165a\u0165a.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Re\u0161pektuj\u00faci pr\u00edstup nie je o tom, \u017ee dovol\u00edme v\u0161etko<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Re\u0161pektuj\u00faca v\u00fdchova znamen\u00e1, \u017ee die\u0165a vid\u00edme a po\u010dujeme. \u017de jeho pocity nebagatelizujeme. \u017de mu ned\u00e1vame vinu za to, \u017ee e\u0161te nedok\u00e1\u017ee regulova\u0165 svoje em\u00f3cie \u2013 lebo to je \u00faplne norm\u00e1lne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u00e1rove\u0148 to ale neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee die\u0165a vedie dom\u00e1cnos\u0165. Naopak \u2013 re\u0161pektuj\u00faci pr\u00edstup sa opiera o jasn\u00e9 hranice. Tak\u00e9, ktor\u00e9 die\u0165a\u0165u d\u00e1vaj\u00fa pocit bezpe\u010dia, pom\u00e1haj\u00fa mu orientova\u0165 sa vo svete a u\u010di\u0165 sa, \u017ee jeho spr\u00e1vanie m\u00e1 d\u00f4sledky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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